2013-07-31

July gatherings!

*NDP theme songs 一年不如一年……

5/7/2013 K9 handlers gathering @ Rocku Yakiniku Japanese Charcoal Grill Restaurant

Participants:
1. Me!
2. Joseph
3. SK
4. Shi Hao
5. Yun Zhen
6. Edwin

After some 1 year 5 months (since Feb 2012), finally got a chance to meet up with the fellow K9 handlers. Thanks to YZ for organising this gathering.

The venue was inside Bugis+. Wasn't the first to reach but wasn't last too. Upon reaching, saw Edwin, YZ, Joseph and SK were sitting while queueing to enter the premise. Shi Hao reached a while later.

Had Japanese style charcoal BBQ for dinner ($30++ per pax). The place was somewhat decorated to look like a garage. In addition, to be fair, the live band was great, but they were too loud when singing, so loud until we need to shout or talk very loudly to get message across. All in all, ambience was definitely not bad.

餐廳還有免費攝影服務,這張從FB偷到的,ᄏᄏᄏ

For the food, it was ok, nothing much to complain about as it's BBQ. But this is the first time I've ever went to a BBQ without any BBQ residue smell on shirt. Kudos to the ventilation system or the charcoal. I believe the charcoals used were of higher quality ones, coz I don't see any significant smoke coming out. Really good.

開始烤肉咯!

BBQ aside, the ready cooked-food was superb! Loved the chicken karaage topped with mayo and the soba (cold noodles)! And there is an option to order beer (comes in a large dispenser size) too.

This meetup had topics centred around graduation, jobs, graduation trip as some of us had already graduated. Looking for a job is definitely on top of the to-do list for us now. That aside, jokes, practically on any and every topic, made up most of the chat session which I really enjoyed. Haha!!!

After the dinner, Edwin left early while the rest of us continued some chats @ Toast Box. Thanks YZ for the teh treat! Talked mainly about ICT as I mentioned I got a low key ICT next week. Good for SK and Joseph as by next year they would have cleared 5 ICTs. 羨慕死我了. Would be same as them if I hadn't deferred it due to studies. While WL, Kenny they all went to 613. On the other hand, Edwin and YZ are in 26. 全部都好命啊…… Come to think of it, a bit sian lo.

6/7/2013 Impromptu dinner at 김대문

Participants:
1. Me!
2. Peng Guan
3. Wei Xian
4. Jia Xin

Ok, this was a very impromptu dinner decided at very last minute. The initial plan wasn't like that, but instead it was something like this:

I wanted to watch Despicable Me 2, so I asked JX along.

JX thought it's awkward for 2 guys to go out like that. So he wanted me to asked more people.

I turned to and asked HH but he said he not free (as he wanted to play mahjong whole day).

So in the end, I told JX the actual fact was that I don't want to stay at home on a nice and beautiful Saturday. Perhaps watching fireworks instead?

In the end, I pulled PG and WX out of their house and decided to have dinner at 김대문 lol~

Played some SGS games while waiting for JX to arrive. Good to see WX getting so interested in the game - next time can play together LOL. Was his first time visiting 김대문 and he was quite impressed with the stall - cheap but quality food! ^^ Felt rather relieved with my suggestion lol...

$5超大份的韓式拉麵

I had ramen ($5) this time round as I already satisfied myself with kimchi fried rice a few days ago. Hohoho... As usual, it was very fulfilling so we decided to take a stroll back to Orchard area. 此時PGOrchard Central裡頭的Maccha House吸引住。

So, fine. We were ok with having a matcha drink to chill ourselves, so went in to take a seat. But walao, WX and PG kept changing seats until JX and me were quite paiseh leh! 可不可以決定後就不要再換了?

全都不同口味的抹茶

Maccha Latte with Brown Sugar Syrup 加了焦糖的抹茶

Ordered Maccha Latte with Brown Sugar Syrup ($6.40). Not cheap, but definitely cheaper than Starbucks's offering. Taste was so-so. I must admit I'm matcha overdosed these days. ~_~

So while listening to them talking about their ICT (happened during the weekdays) made me wondered why am I so sway to kena xxR... Following the previous day, they were talking about xxB. Life under B was so much better then. Some rants here, lol...

Of course 豈能少了三國殺呢?We played few rounds before the shop closed. Yes, I was the winner for the day! LOL!

7/7/2013 Lazing at home

When realised nothing else I can do when I'm outside, it's time to stay at home.

Had to start preparing for ICT. As usual, planned to bring everything back for ICT. But one thing, the helmet cover went missing mysteriously! Have to buy a new one =.=

Discovered the boots seh-gor (生菇發霉)... spent 40 mins kiwi it until shining shining... 滿身大汗啊!Probably it's the last time it's appearing as super shining shining liao -> later will explain why.

8/7/2013 Lunch with ex-colleagues + Getting ready for ICT

Had a fulfilling lunch with ex-colleagues from IA company. Actually I was in hope to see what is the situation over at the company: whether I could join them as one big family. Glad that everybody is doing well.

Took bus 188 back to Jurong East instead of MRT as bus is more convenient and fast too! Went Chevrons to get whatever is missing for the ICT. Then after that after I got home realised the smart bike receiver sensor rosak =.=

那麼新的東西這麼快壞掉,啞口無言……

9-13/7/2013 2nd ICT

Time flies and it's time to go back for reservist. Had some thoughts about this experience.

1. Admin was so much better than first one which I'm happy. No wasting of time.

2. Communication could be improved though, but it's as good as I could see for my level.

3. The feeling of meeting up of bunk mates was good. Never lonely. Lots of laughter. And I could also see they are a bunch of awesome people - do things properly, move in group most of the time and helped me to carry stuff. For this I'm quite grateful to them. If not, I would have continued a rather bachelor's kinda lifestyle whilst my stay there.

Not I wanted to say this but I can't say the same for you. I don't know what's going on, is it your personality? Or illness? Or something else? I don't know. I did tried to talk to you more, but you don't seem to want to talk to people. Was discussing about you with Paul on the last day. You don't want to open yourself up meant that the rest is having difficulties to mingle with you. As such, they are ignoring you.

Could also see that you don't have much friends both in ICT and outside. You do own an iPhone, but yet no Whatsapp or other social media/IM apps? Technically there is no law saying die die must install these, but it roughly shows to the world how your social life is. Oh yeah, you do read manga, but you aren't discussing manga titles with the rest(?)

我已經是盡力而為了。嚴肅的事情我還是會公私分明,當然是不要看到你出stunt咯……

14/7/2013 PG's convocation and dinner @ Kim's Family Korean Restaurant

Participants:
1. Me
2. Peng Guan
3. Heng Hiang
4. Hui Ling

恭喜恭喜畢業咯!

曾經是Orion的一份子,六年半後又重逢

The only highlight of the day was at evening time when PG completed his convocation @ NUS!

首先要說聲一下:恭喜恭喜畢業了!

Nice of YC to buy me a few 太陽餅, they were delicious! Just the milky version of HK's 老婆餅. After the convocation, we took some pictures outside of the UCC hall, before we headed towards Starbucks @ YIH - HH wanted to claim a complementary drink.

The drink was so-so, some matcha + pudding + ice somemore. IMO, the pudding spoiled the overall taste.

Took bus to Bukit Timah and we had Korean cuisine for dinner. Ordered 자짱면 ($13) for myself and shared a serving of 떡볶이 and 파전. IOne thing about Kim's is that they offer up to 12 side dishes! So what was the taste verdict of these food?

韓國料理佐菜

炸醬麵!東方紅的比較好吃


雞/豬肉石鍋拌飯!還是覺得炸醬麵好吃!ᄒᄒᄒ

파전

떡볶이,這道沒什麼驚喜

For 자짱면, I would say I can't find other shops selling the Korean 자짱면 as commonly as kimchi. So I guess I would pass it, but the gravy was rather watery when it should be more firm and 'sticky'. The taste also not quite to the 東方紅's standard. So I still think the best 자짱면 in Singapore still lies with 東方紅.

For 떡볶이, I can't really taste much out of it. It was okay. HL was commenting that the 떡볶이 we had in Jeju was better than this. How in the world she still remember the taste after 1 month?!

For 파전, it was good! The one I had in Seoul was better as it was 'pan fried'. This was just use microwave and heat it up I guess. But still, it's not soggy, cold nor too thick. Good.

After the Kim's, we went a few shops down the street and arrived at Udders for desserts. Was quite crowded but luckily there were already vacanted seats for 4 of us. :)

Chatted for a while, most were regarding jobs, commitments, CPF, buying house(?) bla bla bla... before we went home. Time really changes the conversation topics among us.

15/7/2013 HL's + JX's convocation

Lent some support to HL and JX during their convocations. Especially JX, when he said nobody come to his convocation, I felt that I should at least go down and give some support lo as I'm quite free + live near.

For HL, her parents and brother turned up. But what's surprising and yet not so surprising was that Sebastian showed up too! That's coz he told HL he'll be in SG during night time (so no time to go convocation in afternoon). But what's no so surprising was that he could have planned this as surprise as they're a couple mah. LOL... Actually, none of my business...

As usual, HH was so free until he attended almost every convocation ceremony liao. =.= Wondering is he on a job hunt?

After everything, we went Food For Thoughts @ Dhoby Ghaut for dinner, together with ZX and PG. Dang, I didn't even know Cafe Cartel had closed down its Plaza Sing's branch. Thought their business there was rather good. The night time 50% offer did attract more people to come in and have some supper before they left for home bah. So I don't know what's the reason. Perhaps rent?

Also, FFT shifted from Queen Street to National Museum of Singapore. Was wondering why the move? Also due to rent? But National Museum of Singapore is not quite accessible leh. The old location was rather good!

So having said that, the first impression I got after I arrived at the restaurant was: OMG, how are you going to survive the business?

Literally the service crew just sitting/standing around, waiting for patrons. The restaurant was rather empty, a big contrast to what I saw or I would have expected. Tsk...

Shared a serving of Full Works ($18) with PG. Loved everything about this dish! A tad pity was that the scramble eggs could be further improved by enhacing the taste, much like what Australian Dairy @ HK would do.

Full works!這個真的飽到鬼醬……

The last activity was chilling at Starbucks @ The Cathay House. ZX suggested the MayBank offer and HH helped us to get the drink. I had hot green tea - real thick real nice! HH,你賺到很多杯了hor?很快又要到12杯了horTalked about having some passive income - doing some investments. Calculated before le, just by the salary of my job alone is not enough to live comfortably in SG. I don't mean living in condo though, but HDB with enough savings for the future.

17/7/2013 Super impromptu outing with CC and YD


Participants:
1. Me
2. Chee Chuan
3. Yi Da

This was planned on 16th night, quite last minute, was supposed to meet at JEM for a short meet-up session. But I got stunned by YD, last minute then inform us he got something to buy at Chevrons and pay something at Environmental Building @ Scotts Road. =.= Aiyoyo, next time should have told us before hand so that we could mentally prepare ourselves.

So everything got to change according to YD's schedule. After met up with CC, we walked to Chevrons to find YD there. LOL... He needed to buy almost everything for the mobilisation. Jin kor-lian~

Then we took bus 105 down to Orchard, YD wanted to pay for some rental fees to NEA for renting some venue for some event.

As CC was rushing for time to fetch YX at NUH, we took a cab to NUH then MRT home. LOL... In the meanwhile, I went to JEM to get the legendary Paris Baguette's royal pudding original flavour ($4). Not cheap oh... Tasted like 老伴豆花 though but had a stronger taste to it. The caramel(?) enhanced the overall flavour and it was really good.

Bought 6 boxes of pepero from Korea's Lotte. Why buy so many, because 2 for $1.70 is quite a steal. Somemore it's made in Korea add on to the novelty. LOL! This pepero is much nicer than the Japan
ese Pocky as the chocolate layer is thicker and there are almond flakes on top of it. Very nice snack.

19/7/2013 Thai dinner with PG and YC

Participants:
1. Me
2. Peng Guan
3. Yao Cong

TGIF!

I always love Fridays, especially I'm working! Because I don't have to wake up early next day. As such, I tend to go out or stay up late on Friday evenings.

Had an another impromptu dinner meet-up with the Jurong guys @ Jai Thai Dhoby xChange as PG suddenly had cravings for Thai food. Tsk...

Ordered a small serving of Fried Rice with Chicken Basil Leaf ($5). Not a lot, but it was awesomely spicy! Thumbs up for the shiokness!

Pandan chicken依然那麼好吃

Then for side dish, it was the famous Pandan Chicken ($2 each). One of the nicest fried chicken I had. It's not very the same with KFC where the skin is battered with flour before frying, but rather it's on its own league.

After dinner, went to Spinelli to redeem the free upsize offer. Mocha Spin ($5.60) but upgraded to L size. Nothing much to comment about the drink though. Chatted about NS(?!) while we enjoyed the ambience. Interesting to hear from someone who was from Guards unit. Those were the days...

But the night was still early. We next walked walked around, and walked to Millenia where we had 2nd round of chill session. Went into this a bit Taiwanese feel de desserts shop called 冰變 (兵變的諧音). Interesting name though. Haha...


冰變甜品,忘了是什麼名稱,下面那張芒果口味的還不賴喔

Can't remember what were the names of the desserts we ordered. But the mango one was really good!

20/7/2013 La Kopi with Bay and Choo

I don't usually blog about la kopi. But this one I guess I'd just blog about it lo. Since all others I got blog lo...

Actually most of the updates came from Choo. First of all, he quitted from NTU, which I thought it's a relieve for him bah. Still remember last time the poly people would really complain why universities allocate only 5% of the slots for diploma graduates. After that, they increase the proportion to 25%. However, allocate more vacancies, more people quit! It turns out that there are real reasons behind this.

I don't know the real reasons as I came from JC, but what I can observe is that usually poly people are likely to think that uni is almost similar to poly, but a bit harder. So they tend to bring poly mindset to uni and kena during examinations.

Coz the examination culture in uni is very drastically different from poly. I've heard from poly peeps that the exams in polys were really easy, either the same questions came out or the numbers were tweaked a bit. When you have practised enough doing the past year papers, usually during the real exam, nothing to be scared of.

However, the uni is a whole new level altogether. You'd be lucky if you take up modules which the exam questions do not evolve one. Lol... But I think 90% of the modules do not fall into this category...

...which means you will experience new questions or stunts from the professors! They make everybody panic as they didn't see such questions before one. What's more, the time given was just enough to do all questions with a bit of double checking. Not only poly people, even the JC people do feel the stress.

Then, uni requires constant revision to do well, unlike poly or A level where you still can do a last minute work and go into battle in the exam war. Just considering 'revision', a lot of people already cannot tahan liao.

The situation was that quite a few poly grads quitted school within one year, as they felt that they can't cope with the momentum.

Secondly, after he quitted school, he enrolled himself into some private uni studying tourism and some management thingy. All the best for him lo!

Thirdly, while he's waiting for school to start, he got to work for some money. Presently, he's involved in event planning works which means almost all weekends burnt. T.T

Next, talked about Dominic. Surprised that he don't really check FB. So next time fly to Australia want to find him how to contact him? In fact, this was what I observed as well: it seems that there are a lot of people who don't have an acct on FB one. 什麼階層人士都有份,大學生(還蠻令我咋舌的)、打工仔……A bit hard to socialise lor IMO.

Nonetheless, it was a good catch-up with the Woodlanders.

24/7/2013 Dinner @ Bangkok Jam

Participants:
1. Me
2. Chee Chuan
3. Yi Da
4. Ying Xian

It's no secret that YX and CC are a couple now. Haha... 有時候交往的另一半或許就在你身邊罷了,只是你沒察覺到……

After such a horrid outing last Wednesday, got to do a make-up one and hence we met together for a dinner. 算正式聚會嗎?

As such, we met each other at JEM's Bangkok Jam for a simple dinner. Ordered Chilli Fried Rice ($11) with 2 side dishes: Glass Noodle Salad with Seafood ($10) and Fried Chicken Wings with Fish Sauce Marinade ($9.50), complete with Thai Milk Tea (4.80)

One impression on Bangkok Jam: overrated!

Why?

Firstly, I think the dish are not worth that pricing seen on menu. Why again? Take a look at the side dish, they don't look like they are worth 10 buck dishes. The glass noodles had some seafood, but consisted of sotongs slices, prawns and even crab stick meat! Glass noodles also not ex in first place. So why $10?

For the chicken wing side dish, I also felt it's overrated and don't command the $10 feel. The chicken like skinny skinny one, not much meat. Was a bit disappiointed when this dish was served. T.T

One thing that can save the day was the Thai Milk Tea. 味道好重喔!I highly recommend this one, it's marvelous!

Fried rice was ok, not spicy de. But $11 I would have expected something more - perhaps more exotic or bigger serving. Nonetheless, I was quite full from the meal.

路過NTUC就買了這個只有日本才有的抹茶Kit Kat ($6.10)

 泰式飲料

Glass Noodle Salad with Seafood ($10),味道普普通通

Fried Chicken Wings with Fish Sauce Marinade ($9.50),這個肉少到又貴~

 Thai Olive Fried Rice ($11)

Chilli Fried Rice ($11),不辣的

Pad Thai ($11.90),我覺得外面吃可以有一樣味道,但價錢便宜很多

Prawns with Spaghetti in Coconut Base ($11.90),很大份!

We went to window shop around. Saw this spectacle stall selling specs without any lense or lenses without 度數 one at cheap prices. Yi Da wanted to buy those Korean styles but held back his purchase in the end. Don't know why, but those big-sized specs look better on him lo.

After some window shopping, we went to sip some coffe at Toast Box. Talked about work stuff and suddenly we were on the topic of 靈異事件. I guess YD was interested in this, so 3 of us shared our stories out. I think it was quite scary after hearing from CC and YX. To be honest, I thought YX quite brave liao. If I were her, I would be too scared. T.T From the start till the end, YD was quite attentive to the stories. 都起雞皮疙瘩了說……

25/7/2013 Wolverine + dinner with PG


It's interesting to base the story on WW2 in Japan - seldom movies do that, unless it's a historical film.

The movie was okay, compared to various critics saying the movie didn't live up to the standard. Probably I didn't have any prior knowledge about X-men series bah. Storyline is predictable - good guy wins.

Got confused by Marvel's stories liao =.=

About Alex, quite a chatty guy from NUS mech eng, holidaying and finding jobs for the past close to 3 months, but didn't know he's still a private?! After listen to all loads of his NS stories, I just felt that mine one was so much better, 不能比的. LOL...

Suddenly PG wanted to meet up. Sway... Victor's Kitchen was closed on that day. No choice but to look for other eatery place liao. I suggested why not go Shine Korea which was nearby...

To my horror or to my fortunate in a way, the instant 자장면 selling for $9! I bought the exact same thing for probably less than $4. That's how expensive imported niche stuff are in SG. *shake head*

At one corner, the stacks of banana milk caught PG surprise - 30 cents (instead of $1.20) per pack. It turned out that these banana milk has some dents on the packaging due to poor handling and the expiry date is nearing. So I swept 5 packs at one go. ^^

Dinner @ Bugis. Simple meal - nasi lemak ($2.20), nothing spectacular. Went well with banana milk. Haa~

26/7/2013 Dinner at Commonwealth Crescent

It's PG again - wanted to meet up dinner. OMG, have been going out for past few days. Getting a bit sick of it liao. Haha...

This time round: Commonwealth Crescent.

After meeting with WX and PG, we walked to the exact venue where Coocci comtemporary Japanese food stall is. It is managed by a couple not old looking. Applaud their 創業精神 when they could be typical office workers and enjoying the luxury of air-con.

Chicken Roulade ($5), 愛上那個肉肉的東西,呵呵

Tori Nanban ($6),賣相不錯hor

Had Chicken Roulade in noodle soup ($5). The roulade was really really good. Thought the noodles were those wanton mee style, but in reality they were mee sua. Nice too! I love mee sua!

Then we continued our dinner with an ice-cream dessert at Island Creamery @ King's Albert Park. Aigoo...玩三國殺玩到忘記下車,你們很行! 黑糯米口味獨具特別,依然能吸引住我……蘋果派有一點點新鮮感,味道是ok的……Nutella就有一點點,嗯……還可以改進啦!

27/7/2013 Shi Hao 'wedding' dinner cum K9 gathering

As promised, we, as the 原班人馬, turned up for Shi Hao's 'wedding' dinner. Was quite surprised that he married and got a son so fast! 有些東西是會超出你的預算之中的。當然,還是替SH高興的。

YZ had his sister's convocation to attend so would be late...

Supposed to meet Edwin at Raffles Place MRT but the good news was that he got his family car and could fetch me down to Fullerton Hotel. Thanks Edwin. Chatted about recent happenings to us, glad that Edwin found a job...

In fact, we two were the first among K9 handlers to arrive. Wrote some greeting words before entering the hallroom. *HD over the receiptionist's complment that my words look beautiful, hahah!* 我覺得漢字真的很美,所以都會花心思把它寫美美的。

Subsequently Joseph and SK arrived. Talked about 最近風靡全球的Minion Rush. 被問起怎麼拿到高分,原來Joseph確實有花錢去買coins的。難怪進展那麼神速的說~之後他說會到澳洲度個短假,想到我都想出國去台灣玩的說……

Lots of laughter began after that. SK really knows how to 炒氣氛. I really enjoyed each and every single gathering with this bunch of people. Really made my day! :D

The dishes were quite delicious. The best part of it is that in local culture, the diners no need to spend effort to distribute the dishes among them - everything had been taken care of by the waiter/waitress. And after every dish, the plate got changed to a new one.

TBH, I'm not very particular whether diners should self-service with distributing the food. I can do it myself because I know how much I want to eat. But of course, 一分錢一分貨, if this is the case, then I should expect it to be cheaper than the 服務周到的餐館.

In fact this is my first time attending such event in Singapore. 25年都沒在新加坡喝喜酒,不懂算achievement unlocked嗎?哈哈……也不稀奇,新加坡擺桌不便宜,通常都是請最多兩名(都是夫妻)來出席宴會,而且都是爸媽去的,自然而然自己就沒有機會去咯……

The dinner was a lot downsized and downgraded from a full-blown wedding dinner. No video/photo presentation, no parents around, no cutting of cakes, no opening of champange, a lot of no's...

老實說,我不懂YZ在想什麼,有工不做,只想去玩?考慮到自己目前的‘困境’,自然就覺得說現在是工挑你,不是你挑工。所以有工作機會到來,就要抓緊不放手了。當然他有他的原因和自由,我無權過問。

On the way home, me and Edwin were talking about future. 對他而言,26/27歲結婚不算早,絕對是適婚年齡。然而我們每天都在rat race裡面,盲目追求文憑的成就、盲目追求金錢/物資上的享受,或許會忽略人生基本的另一面——愛情。人人現在都在談女朋友,有女友的就談談她,沒女友的就談理想對象,這些其實都是人生必經之路。但是如果不是26/27歲結婚,30多歲才結婚ok嗎?是不是很老?這個我沒辦法做實驗找答案。時間,它就是不等人的。


因為畢業了,因為工作了,生活上的某些習慣真的要改了。以前還能整日都出門,現在只能約定在下班後去吃晚餐,不然就是週末。都能在以上幾個
outing看得出。

談到未來,我自己也沒什麼去想。沒工怎麼想啊?!都沒有錢,什麼都免談!

2013-07-26

不好意思

上禮拜跟Sharon通電話是一件已經很久沒發生的事情。

幾年後第一次打電話(聽起來很奇怪,但事實就是如此啊),似乎有很多話題聊——幾乎什麼都聊,從工作到同學近況到人生目標等都在話下。

別誤會,不是說我們因某些原因不能見面聊天……只是剛好電話一來,話題就來了。

本帖是要敘述我們對話的其中一件事情。話說上個月底Yee Loong有開FB Event邀請全4-01的人來個聚會,而反應非常慘淡,最終被迫取消。

我都不好意思說出來我也有份不理它,因為很多時候我不是完全忘記掉,而是我每次上FB都沒有想到要回覆一下自己有沒有空或要不要去。

說老實話,看到這樣的結局,並沒有感到意外……為什麼?

原因也不難猜啦,自從中學畢業後,大家都各奔東西,在人生道路上選擇不同的路繼續走下去。有些選擇JC路線、其他的走Poly路線。單單是這個就已經有個很大的落差了,除了讀的科目內容不一樣之外,課程表、考試/放假期間、社交圈子、認識新朋友/伴侶都有很大的影響力。

過後,男生當兵,部分女生繼續升學讀大學。大家有空的時間真的完全不一樣了,女生上大學後難免會忙起來,有些男生週末還要做duty

後來,男生當完兵後繼續升學,一切幾乎從零學起,看得出有些在學習上真的遇到困難。我可以說大多數人一考完試後,都會把學過的東西忘得一干二淨,更何況是當兵這兩年的時間呢?

等到大家完成教育這個階段後,女生已經投入社會打拼最少都有12年時間了。在任何時候,大家放的目標都不一樣的。

所以到了現在,每個人都為了不同的東西而忙,也對這個4-01聚會沒興趣了。或許覺得離這個社群越來越遠了、或許真的是沒時間、或許是不好意思paiseh看到大家、或許你利用這機會看清這些人的真面目。

加上個人認為4-01本身都不團結,大家都散散的,有自己一小組一小組醬,你要大家一起聚一聚是有一點點問題咯。

雖然說這現象不是很好啦,但我不怪他們。因為當你沒有付出去經營一段感情,不管是愛情、親情甚至友情,結果會是一樣的——漸漸疏遠、慢慢冷漠。

但慶幸的是,我自己所屬的clique,偶爾還有會聚會啦。這已經很好了,我都別無所求。

有時候我在FB看到別人時不時還有中學同學聚會,真的有一點不可思議,因為過了那麼多年,近乎十年了,都還有保持聯絡。不神奇咩?

有時候自己很想去維持每一個關係,但以我這種慢熱型的人,真的力不從心……

2013-07-25

Dilemma

*A bit lazy to tidy up grad trip photos. Imagine the remaining workload to clear up! But will try to finish it up, also write up events happened recently and uni life.*

This period of time could be the hardest time of all, even worse than during examinations.

Still doesn't have a job yet. But I've sent out resumes, still waiting for the very first interview. Not even to say second/third round interview. On the other hand, 大家都陸陸續續找到工作了. Something wrong somewhere?

I don't know. Haven't land myself onto a job, yet I'm thinking about commitments liao. A bit emo la. All the mess and stress come in and start attacking me.

或許,真的,Yong Rui講的真準,年頭開始找工作是明智的選擇。但我又怕成績有欠理想,畢竟人家可知道我處在什麼位置,期望都有一點高,而且我又不要讓人家失望。

等到現在,多多少少大家都已經聘請到了畢業生。什麼‘不是我去找工,而是工作來找我’這種油腔滑調的話騙到天真的我。什麼FCH都假的,何必那麼拼呢?到頭來人家更先一步,更勝一籌。

撇開工作不說,從身邊的人打聽到朋友XX啦、YY啦等等都已經符合以下最少一樣:

1. 有伴侶
2. 已求婚/已答應
3. 已註冊訂婚
4. 買了房子,有些都拿到鑰匙
5. 有孩子,成家立業

不是我開始緊張。不是說他們年紀大過我,就覺得這些是理所當然的。事實上最多也大個一兩歲,多數都是同齡的。

我在哪裡?還在原點。

說變化,我已經算是那個最原封不動的那位了。

再沒工作,我真的不懂要做什麼了。要瘋了……

This is the quarter life crisis.

2013-07-21

Graduation trip to Korea Day 2 (27 May 2013)

第二天的行程就是要租車玩遍濟州島。但天氣不是很給面子,所以有一點sien下。:/

撐著傘走去車子附近的Paris Baguette(第一晚閒逛的時候無意間發現到的Paris Baguette)買早餐。第一個印象是跟新加坡的完全不同,它真的是自助服務而且不用排隊取麵包或付款的,因為沒什麼人啊。

價錢更不用講,韓國的Paris Baguette便宜很多……

買了個‘Ham Pastry’ (햄페스츄리)、Egg tart (에그타르트)和Sora pie (소라파이)就當場解決掉了。餓到……

‘Ham Pastry’ (햄페스츄리)

 Egg tart (에그타르트)

 Sora pie (소라파이)

 第一站:濟州市民俗五日市場/Jeju City Folks 5-day Market (제주시민속오일시장)

濟州島第一站是可以讓我們體會到風土民情的五日市場!為什麼叫五日市場是因為這個市場只在每個月的2712172227日營業罷了。特別hor?其實這跟馬來西亞的pasar malam很像咯。

或許商家每日都去不同的地點做生意。不然才開那五六天,賺得到錢咩?

停車是個問題,不過好才等5分鐘就有一輛開走了,不然要費時等停車位呢。整個感覺跟馬來西亞小鎮差不多。

一走進市場,就有一點像馬來西亞跟新加坡巴剎的中間。商品應有盡有,活的、死的、吃的、穿的、戴的、用的都能在這裡一網打盡。

這樣才叫市場嘛!

餅乾

新鮮水果販賣

 馳名的濟州巧克力

호떡

裡頭是紅豆餡料

大夥們看到馳名的濟州巧克力就停下腳步試吃,還跟大嬸殺價,但大嬸堅持自己的價格——41萬元。最終還是跟她買了4盒,呵呵。我們繼續走,來到牲畜的地方,有狗、禽類、寵物類販賣,但狗有沒有被殺來吃(印象中韓國人有吃狗肉的習慣),我就不懂了,我也不想懂…… :(

然後再繼續走,來到小吃巷,又買濟州巧克力,這次大叔給的價格比較好——5盒1萬元!真是的,早知道跟他買多一點好了。要貨比三家才能做出明智的選擇。

然後走走下,肚子怎麼吃都還有空位裝食物。於是我們買了一份호떡(蜜糖煎餅)和魚形紅豆麵煎糕,便宜而且味道還不錯!第一個開始掃貨是HL,第二天而已就已經在掃衣服了。便宜啊!

地址:
제주특별자치도 제주시 도두1 1212
064-743-5985

第二站:濟州泰迪熊博物館/Jeju Teseum (제주테지움)

還沒入場已經有一隻熊在歡迎你啦!

逛完五日市場後,就駕車南下離開濟州市。到郊外其實很好駕車,因為市區車多、紅綠燈多、路口多,在市區內駕車還蠻怕怕的。郊外就不同了,車少很多,紅綠燈也少,相對而言壓力就少很多了。

只是天氣真的很不行,下雨而且刮大風!風大到我還以為其實在刮颱風了,因為車子駛過濕滑的馬路,濺起來的水花被橫風一吹,畫面還蠻像颱風來襲的情況的。所以我駕車都在60 km/h或以下,不敢開太快。

來到第二站——濟州泰迪熊博物館。說是濟州島的泰迪熊博物館,但事實上濟州島就有三間泰迪熊博物館!聽PG講這間展示的泰迪熊是能讓參觀者上去擁抱的,也就這樣這間就被放進行程裡面。

停好車後,卻不能好好下車,因為強風把開出來的雨傘吹反去!啊,狀況連連!

剛好我們有Air Busan的票根,所以入門票有打折!呵呵!High到一下!博物館展示的泰迪熊都一個樣子的,但館內有分不同的主題,熊熊就穿上應景的服裝展示出來。有些還擺演唱會甚至求婚呢!

看到這些泰迪熊,心情都好一些些

演唱會

 
求婚記

全家合照

地址:
제주특별자치도 제주시 애월읍 소길리 115-12번지
064-799-4820

第三站:O'sulloc雪綠茶博物館/O'sulloc Tea Museum (오설록 티하우스 뮤지엄)

博物館

看完熊熊後,就去下一個目的地品嚐到底的綠茶!如同泰迪熊博物館一樣,沒有車還真的不用想來參觀了——交通有一點點不方便。入門是免費的。

進去後就是去找甜品跟飲料,然後就是等,希望雨停了,呵呵!

綠茶蛋糕

綠茶雪糕+飲料

基本上綠茶的的東西,蛋糕啦、飲料啦都很不錯,然而不便宜,但在韓國享受一下太太的生活真的很爽!

喝完飲料就去買一點自家產品,我自己本身買了綠茶包。HH還買減肥水呢!(但回國後,我發現他不減反增!吃太多好料?)買完發現天氣還很不行,我就放棄去海邊的計劃,轉而回返民宿或去一些室內的地方。所以下一站是濟州中央地下商街。

地址:
제주특별자치도 서귀포시 안덕면 서광리 1235-3
064-794-5312

第四站:濟州中央地下商街/Jeju Central Underground Mall Street (제주중앙지하상가)

第四站不需要我們撐傘的,因為是地下廣場!停好車後我們就沿著小路走出去,只要路過有超市我們都會不由自主進去看看有什麼東西在賣!奇怪的是,我發現Market O的brownie沒有想像中那麼普遍。小超市一般上都不會賣brownie的。

其實地下商場還蠻專做遊客生意的,因為我看到它們的都有打著退稅的招牌!想必東西應該沒有很很很便宜咯。逛逛下到晚餐時間就走去最後一站:吃烤肉!

地址:
제주특별자치도 제주시 일도1

末站:豚香氣烤肉餐館/Don-Hyang-Gi Black Pork restaurant (돈향기)

這家餐廳還算有名

從地下商場要去這間餐廳真讓我們頭痛!因為我們不熟路線,加上下雨又天色已晚,從8號出口走出來後就不太會繼續走了。於是,我們來到一間麵包店。裡頭的服務員蠻年輕的,以為她會一點簡單華語/英語,結果她完全不會!經過幾番比手劃腳後,她拿出手機給我打字進去翻譯。後來她明白我們的意思之後,就用韓語+手勢告訴我們怎麼走去。我們也是agar-agar的說。

就誤打誤撞來到目的地。餐館內裝潢簡約,想到韓國料理會有很多佐菜,桌子看起來就小很多了。鐵板設計也很特別,是傾斜一邊的,好讓多餘的油流出來。

如果考慮到韓國小菜,桌子肯定太小……

主角登場!黑豬烤肉!

至於食物呢,算不錯,尤其是黑豬肉,吃起來跟普通白豬肉有區別。吃到很飽就是了。這時候從餐館走出來,雨才停。夜晚涼涼的天氣,加上少許的風,真的很舒服……

就這樣第二天就過去了,回到民宿想到天氣那麼糟糕又要重新計劃第三天行程了……

戰利品!

濟州島焦點之一——城山日出峰!第三天出發!